Sunday, March 21, 2021

Trinbagonians talk. (129) Wickedness made you do it. There is no Love in Abuse.

If dey does hit yuh, Ah t’ink yuh should break up wit dem. Dat blow yuh did get from dem, should never happen. Toleratin’ de regret an’ stayin’ in de relationship is goin’ to make yuh partner feel safe to hit yuh again. Yuh cyah change a person who likes to inflict pain to be carin’.

If they hit you, I say end the relationship. The strike you received should not have happened. Accepting the apology and staying in the relationship is going to make your companion feel comfortable to hit you again. You cannot rehabilitate an abuser. You cannot change an abuser into an empathetic person.  

 

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