Stop beating or verbally abusing your child/children then say to
them, “You know I did it because I love you.” That statement is wrong and
should not be stated! Love doesn’t hurt. People hurt people. There should be a
cut off age for licks/beating/blows. I believe from ages 10 it should stop. Yes
your child/children might be hard of hearing, stubborn, but there are other ways
to discipline them. Do not let your child/children believe that being abusive
is the right and only way to defuse a situation. Somebody has to break the
chain of painful and hurtful punishment.
Love is tender. It is the sweetest feeling you feel and it does
not make you inflict pain. Using love as your excuse for inflicting pain is
sending the wrong message. Later in life if your child is being badly treated
he/she is going to accept the executor’s reason, “Do you see what you made me
do? I am doing it (Abusing you) because I love you”…
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