Men cheat and women cheat. Their cheating is for selfish reasons. But as the old Trinbago folks used to say, “Dey eh no dam’ good.” Cheaters tell lots of lies about their marital situation. When something signification happens to their outside partner that could cause a major problem in their marriage, they disown the outside partner. Now the partner who was giving their all, with hopes of gaining him or her completely is now left hanging.