During this time many husbands, wives, partners even children dislike the people they are living with. It is a sad situation. My heart goes out to children because it was an adult who taught them how to dislike a person. If you are living like this (an abuser) in your home, PAUSE FOR A MOMENT! GET A GLASS OF WATER! TAKE A SIP! DON’T SAY A WORD! SIP! DON’T LASH OUT! SIP! It will calm your spirit. Dear God, help those who are living in abusive situation.