Men don’t like to talk about what is really happening to them. Harold said that it is because they don’t like the derogatory feedback they get from talking about situations. I thank God, he and Paul let me know what is going on. Harold always used to talk to me, but things used to happen to Paul and I used to find out by his actions. He was being bullied in elementary school. I only found out one day by the way he was acting when he got home. I asked him what was going on and he kept saying that he was okay. The next day when I dropped him off at school, I stood where he could not see me and watch him. A boy pulling him and Paul was asking him to let him go but the boy started roughing him up. Well I fixed that shit in a flash. Pay attention to your children especially your boys. You will know if something is wrong by their actions.

Enjoy your day and be safe.