Saturday, December 31, 2016

2016 was the year of lies, deceit and jealousy… 2017 truth will rain down on them. Shame covers it all.

Have a nice day and be safe!
A prayer for you.
Psalm 12. Help, Lord, for no one is faithful anymore; those who are loyal have vanished from the human race. Everyone lies to their neighbor; they flatter with their lips but harbor deception in their hearts. May the Lord silence all flattering lips and every boastful tongue— those who say, “By our tongues we will prevail; our own lips will defend us—who is lord over us?” “Because the poor are plundered and the needy groan, I will now arise,” says the Lord. “I will protect them from those who malign them. The promises of the LORD are sure, like tried silver, freed from dross, sevenfold refined. You, O LORD, will keep us and preserve us always from this generation, while about us the wicked struts and in high place are the basest of men. Amen.

In 2017 don’t have an idea/s to better your life for just having an idea sake. Follow through on it… DO IT! I wish you all the good things that life has to offer in 2017. Love, Peace and Joy.


Friday, December 30, 2016

Have a nice day. Enjoy and be safe.

You'll never find peace of mind until you listen to your heart. George Michael --- (1963-2016)


Accept everything about yourself - I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end - no apologies, no regrets. Henry A. Kissinger


Thursday, December 29, 2016

Fr Martin Sirju of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Roman Catholic Church in San Fernando Trinidad and Tobago, said that he was not blessing toys. He was going to bless the children.
“I have nothing against the blessing of toys, I just don't think today is the day to do it because to me it does not reflect the seriousness of the occasion. The scriptures, text, Gospel for today ends on a pretty sad note…a woman weeping for her children and it is hard for me,” he said. I agree with him.
The Feast of the Holy Innocents or Childermas is to commemorate the massacre of the male children, two years old and under, in Bethlehem when King Herod attempted to kill the infant Jesus.
In medieval England, children were reminded of the mournfulness of the day by being whipped in bed. This custom continued until the 17the century.

On December 28th and other Christian churches on December 29th children take their toys to church to be blessed. This day should be in memory of all the children who were slaughtered… Toys can be blessed on another day.
Mother Debbie Reynolds --- (April 1, 1932- December 28, 2016)
Daughter (Princess Leia) Carrie Fisher ---(October 21, 1956- December 27, 2016)
RIP.


Wednesday, December 28, 2016

2016 was a wonderful year. I woke up every day with all my faculties and that was the best thing. I saw and heard lots of things. Somethings I know I was not supposed to see and hear, but I did and it made me wiser. I touched, smelt and tasted somethings that felt good even smelled good, but tasted bad. It reminded me that looks can be deceiving… But that is life. I am looking forward to see what 2017 holds for me and my family.
I hope 2016 was good for you. Have a nice day and be safe! 

Tuesday, December 27, 2016

New York still have honest to goodness people. Harold was on his way to work. The train he takes was not running so he took a taxi to get another train. His phone fell in the taxi. He only realized it was missing when his Bluetooth started to signal out of range with the phone. Panic set in because he was on call, the engineer and customer were waiting for him and all the information for the job was on the phone. He called me to call the phone. I made two calls, but no one answered… then he called me saying that the taxi driver came back with the phone… I thank God for the taxi driver… 













Princess Leia
Carrie FIsher ---(1956-2016)

Monday, December 26, 2016


I really Love George Michael's Music
1963-2016
R.I.P.

Christmas was very nice for me and my family. I hope it was the same or better for you and yours. Have a wonderful day and be safe.

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Happy Christmas Eve to you and yours.

Do not leave your home without saying goodbye. Remember to buy the gift you promised to buy for your child/children even if he or she did something to upset you.
A gift is given for pleasure, to show gratitude and love. Make your home a happy home.

I wish you strength and courage to face the day. Enjoy it and be safe. 

Friday, December 23, 2016

Happy Friday to you and yours. Enjoy and be safe.

I live in a building with very honest to goodness, kind people. Egyptians, Haitians, Mexicans, Puerto Ricans, Tibetans, and we are Trinidadians. Let me tell you how good and kind they are. How did I forget my neighbor who is Pakistani? She always gives me a warm hello when we meet and asks the rest of my family for me when she sees them.  
One day our Tibetan neighbor, rang our door bell to bring my keys. I left it in the mail box.
Doh ask me how that happen…
Ok I probably got a check with big money in the mail, got excited and forgot the keys. I thanked God for my neighbors.

One day while I was walking up the stairs to go into my apartment, one of my Mexican’s neighbors who lives on the third floor was behind me. She got to her floor, and I continued to the fourth floor. As I was about to make the last two steps my right knee started to hurt so I cried out from the pain. My neighbor asked me what was wrong. I told her and she came, and helped me lift my foot to make the final steps. I made them and limped to my door.  I thanked God for my neighbors.

Last night the mail man put some packages for me by the mail box. Harold and Paul came in from work after five… Sarah went to Manhattan to shop and came home after six. They did not see anything by the mail box. About ten o’clock last night another one of my Mexican neighbors rang our doorbell to inform us about the packages. I thank God for blessing us with honest to goodness neighbors.

Thursday, December 22, 2016

“A Little MERCY This CHRISTMAS”

Compassion, Pity, Clemency, Kindness, Sympathy, Understanding, Leniency, Humanity, FORGIVENESS! However, you want to say it, it means MERCY! Like I said and have been saying, “Yes you are upset that your child/children did something you deem unforgivable, yet you call yourself a Christian… hmm.”
We win by tenderness. We conquer by forgiveness.Frederick William Robertson (1816 -1853)

“On Christmas morning please give your child/Children the gift/gifts you have for them and make it a Merry Christmas for you all. A little MERCY goes a long way…

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

I hope you are having a wonderful day. Enjoy and be safe.


And know that I am with you always; yes, to the end of time. Jesus Christ

Tuesday, December 20, 2016

I have no right, by anything I do or say, to demean a human being in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him; it is what he thinks of himself. To undermine a man's self-respect is a sin. Antoine de Saint-Exupery --- (1900-1944)
The person who is undermining you is always the person who is the nicest person to you.
Enjoy your day and be safe.

Monday, December 19, 2016

On a personal note. My family and I are just simple. The things we want for Christmas is never overboard. Harold and I, what we really need. Paul a book, and clothes, Sarah a book, a game, and clothes.

I see everyone putting up there Christmas tree and I love that moment… It is tradition and since childhood I looked forward to doing it. Last year we did not have a Christmas tree because Harold threw out the one we had saying we will get another. Christmas came and the decorations went on the walls. The place looked festive and very nice. This year I kept saying to myself, “I want a Christmas tree, but was feeling that I am the one who always saying I want this and that for Christmas and getting it so I kept quiet.
I woke up this morning and the first thing Harold said to me, “Ali I am buying a Christmas tree.”
I get down in my Trinbago twang with excitement, “Oh gosh if yuh know how bad I wanted one. God does answer mih prayers oui!” I said.
He smiles.
I hope you are all getting what you want for Christmas. Have a nice day and be safe!

Sunday, December 18, 2016

Happy Sunday to you and yours. Have a wonderful day and be safe!

We know that all interracial groups in South Africa are relationships in which whites are superior, blacks inferior. So as a prelude, whites must be made to realize that they are only human, not superior. Same with blacks. They must be made to realize that they are also human, not inferior. Steven Biko (BornDecember 18, 1946, King William's Town, Eastern Cape, South Africa -- AssassinatedSeptember 12, 1977, Pretoria, South Africa)

Friday, December 16, 2016

Social media can be a fun place, yet it is a dangerous place. Many people who don’t have your best interest at heart find it a safe-haven to say things about you or about others. I have had my fair-share of it, but I did not get a sleepless night about it. I am happy that somebody found me worth talking about.
Have a wonderful day and be safe! 

Thursday, December 15, 2016

It is not a joke! I wish him strength and courage to face the days ahead.

All the people who are laughing at the man for being worried about his wife, should think about their own bread and butter. You don’t know if you are being lied too. All the arrogant, egotistical people need to remember what the old folks used to say, “Today for you, tomorrow for me.”
Life have a way of showing us, what happened to you, might be happening to me or it could happen to me. I do not laugh at a fool’s folly.

If the neighbor house on fire, wet yours. Mind your freaking business!

She went out to have a good time. She lied about what happened. Yes, her story was outlandish but ladies it is something to think about. I experienced being in a taxi cornered by men who did not have my best interest at heart. Be on your guard. There are predators among us. Have a nice day and be safe!


Wednesday, December 14, 2016

Harold gave me this news article about the Missing Woman being abducted and assaulted… He said that lots of people are saying she is not being truthful. After reading I told him I believe her, because a part of her story reminded me of an incident that took place with me in a taxi 38 years-ago. On Saturday, October 30, 2010. I posted excerpts from it I called it, ‘Saved by The Bank’. I did not say it was me, but today I am going to re-post it.


One day 38 years ago, I was going to Port-of-Spain. The taxi I took from Point Fortin dropped me on High Street, San Fernando. I went to Royal Bank to get some money. After I got the money, I left the bank and walked to the Port-of-Spain taxi-stand. The driver of a taxi, was standing outside of his car, asked me if I was going to POS, and I told him yes. Before I got into the car, I saw 2 men standing about 30 feet from the car. They did not look as though they knew each other, but for some odd reason I kept my eyes on them.
A man was sitting in the front passenger seat so I got into the back, I said good morning, but he did not answer. The driver got in behind the wheel. The two men walked towards the car. When they got to it, one entered on the right and the other on the left putting me in the middle. An uneasy feeling came over me and I knew I had to get out of the car. I started to pray silently asking God to tell me what to say to get out. The driver started the car and pulled out into the traffic. I opened my handbag, pretended to be looking for something, then I said, “Oh gosh, driver, I have to make a quick stop at the bank. I forgot some papers that I would need for a meeting.”
“When you get to your meeting, call the bank, and ask them to fax the papers,” The man on my right said.
“How do you know where I am going have a fax machine?” I said.
His suggestion, had me more anxious, but I did not want to make any of them aware of how afraid I was, so in a calm tone I continued, “We are near the bank. It’s not going to take a lot of time for me to get the papers. Are you very busy?”
“Come on guys, you all know that this bitch is not comfortable around all this testosterone,” said the man on the left.
 “She must be a lesbian,” said the man sitting in the front.
“Oh really! You guys probably don’t have a mother, or you just don’t like women that is why you are speaking to me like that!” I said angrily.
“Calm down guys. Let the woman go and get her papers. We did see her go into the bank earlier, and she just came out,” The driver said.
I realized that the men were all friends and they were looking at my movements. I kept saying in my mind, ‘Lord please make the driver stop’… he eventually stopped.
When I got out I said, “Wait right here, I’m coming back.”
I walked quickly to the bank, and stayed for a bit. When I left the bank, I got into a taxi back to Point Fortin…
I know that I am not the only woman that these men tried to harm.

Women be on your Ps and Qs, there must be predators like those I encountered lurking around Trinidad and Tobago…

Tuesday, December 13, 2016

It really doesn’t matter if you worry about it, it is going to happen in due-course… when the time is right.

Have a wonderful day and be safe.

Monday, December 12, 2016

Take off the tight shoe. Take off the tight pants. Take off the tight bra. Now let go of the one who is hurting you… making you hate you… hate your body. Relax, breathe, love you, live your life and love it too…

Enjoy and be safe.

Sunday, December 11, 2016

Happy Sunday to you and yours. The Love of God… The Seraphim.

“SIX WINGS; Two to fly and two to cover his body because the body is an unclean thing … And two to cover his eyes because no one can look at God."
“Why can’t you look at God?”
“It is hard to look at a love you can’t understand!”

Sigur Rós - Seraph ft. Rembihnútur, Ekki múkk [Official Music Video]



Friday, December 9, 2016

A good and safe day to all. Thank God for making that evil person keep his hands and his words to himself.

Yes, I know God has his people and the devil has his, but how does one sleep or live day by day after doing an unholy act!? 

Thursday, December 8, 2016

I was born in 1960 and life was just fun-filled and the best in Trinidad and Tobago. Ten years later, 1970 was the first time I knew someone who was
arrested for murder. It was scary and hurtful because I knew everyone involved.
In 1980 love was flowing through the air. Everyone in Point Fortin was just happy-go-lucky... enjoying life. I left Trinbago in 1989, but I used to hear stories about life there. No major drama until the middle 1990s and to date drama has been unfolding in tragic ways.
Where, in the world did these hateful, egotistical, devil driven people came from? Who, in the world gave birth to them?


A wonderful safe day to you and yours.

Wednesday, December 7, 2016

A bad man can do good things. Not because he is a pastor, a priest etc., he is a good person. He might preach a good word, uplifting his worshipers, but behind closed doors only God knows the man.
A 26-year-old pastor from San Fernando, Trinbago was caught raping a 14-year-old girl in Sangre Grande. This child was in school uniform. People in the neighborhood saw them under a tree… thought it was not right so they called the police. 
On judgment dayMatthew 7:22-23. Many will say to me on that day, “LORD, LORD did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name, drive out demons, and in your name perform many miracles?” Then I will tell them plainly, “I never knew you, Away from me, you evildoers!”

For once in your life clean up your act! Life is too short!

LISTEN!
DON’T LIE!
DON’T THIEF!
DON’T LAMBASTE!
DON’T WANT WHAT DOESN’T BELONG TO YOU!
DON’T BE HURTFUL!

ENJOY YOUR LIFE AND BE SAFE!

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Birds Nesting Near the Coast –Rumi (1207-!273)
Soul, if you want to learn secrets, your heart must forget about shame and dignity.
You are God’s lover, yet you worry what people are saying.
The rope belt the early Christians wore to show who they were, throw it away.
Inside you are sweet beyond telling and the cathedral there, so deeply tall.
Evening now, more your desire than a woman’s hair.
And not knowledge, walk with those innocent of that,
face inside fire, birds nesting near the coast, earning their beauty, servants to the ocean.

There is a sun within every person, the you we call companion.

Hope you are having a nice day. Enjoy and be safe.


Monday, December 5, 2016

You were not there so you only heard one side of the story. Do not punish your child twice for what you were told that he or she did. Buy him or her the Christmas gift you promised. Life is too short to make your Christmas holiday a sad affair.
Paul and Sarah did things to displease us and when they said they were sorry, we knew that they were, but we kept an open mind because they are humans and they were going to do something foolish again.
I was young like them too and I did my share of foolishness… I sometimes remember some of the things I did and I laughed at the stupidity of it. Look at what your child did and see if it doesn’t remind you of things you did when you were their age.
By the gift you promised and make Christmas a happy affair!

Have a wonderful day and be safe!

Sunday, December 4, 2016

Happy Sunday to you and yours!

Talk, but don’t nag! It’s Sunday! Do not argue! It is Sunday! Be happy! IT IS SUNDAY! A wonderful day to celebrate your history!
If you are asked to hush, do not say another word! Have respect for silence!
Love yourself first then you will love life and enjoy it too! Have a nice day and be safe!

Saturday, December 3, 2016

I know where my family is and I thank God for that. I hope you know where your family is and you are at peace. I hope you don’t make anybody disturb your spirit. Have a wonderful day, relax and enjoy life!