Sunday, August 11, 2013

“50 Years Ago In Trinbago”

Today —A New World Order.
50 years ago in Trinbago there were no thieves. I remember that an elderly person could ask a child in the neighborhood to run an errand for them. The child would do it, without complaining, bring the item along with the change~ Not today.
You ask them for some of their fruits, — mango, pommecythere, pommerac etc., They used to say, “Child go ahead. Pick what you want and pick some for me too.” You did the exact thing she/he said and everybody was happy~ A different story today.
The vendors in the market used to leave there produce over night in their stalls, covered with a crocus bag. When they return the next day everything was intact in there stalls. If you go to buy from the absent vendor, the one next to him/her would sell you the item. When he/she arrived they would be informed about the transaction and given the money~ Not today.
All windows and doors used to be wide opened Sunday to Sunday. I did not know about locking a door. Closing a window depended on the rain and wind. If the wind was blowing the rain in the direction of the open window you closed it~ Today it’s not just rain and wind causing you to close it.
A new world order.

Saturday, August 10, 2013

“Learn By Heart”

If you did it from the heart, compunction~ second thoughts~ regret, will not be in your heart, mind and soul.
You did it~ You gave it~ Now let it go. If you think you spilled the milk, why cry over it? Why waste time and energy over things you have no control over?

So on this beautiful Saturday thank God that you paid your dues to society. Have a blessed safe day.

“A Trinbago Moment”

Sometimes you have to remind some people that:~
Bush have ears~
Doh sit on de river an’ talk de river bad~
Doh trouble trouble ‘till trouble trouble yuh~
Doh be lucky an’ coward~
Advantage never done~
De deeper de darkness, de nearer de dawn~
Dis time nuh like before time~
Dog doh make cat~
If he tell you stan’up – RUN!~
If shit was sugar farmer wouldn’ –A plant cane~
T’ief from t’if does make God laugh~
Yuh head eh make to wear hat alone~
Yuh cyar make love on hungry belly~
Teet’ an’ tongue does have to meet one day~
Who do good fuh jumbie is dem self jumbie does frighten~
Yuh go put fowl to watch corn?~
When yuh neighbor house on fire wet yours~
Play jackass, dey go ride yuh~
Cockroach have no right in fowl party~
Follow-fashion kill monkey-dog~


Friday, August 9, 2013

If you rest, you rust. —Helen Hayes (1900-1993)

A wonderful safe day to you and yours~

Do not do it just because you can~ Do it if it is going to advance you to great thing~


Thursday, August 8, 2013

“Play Areas Are Not Safe”

A child was sexually assaulted by a 14 yr old at a McDonalds Play Area in Queens, NY. Parents/caregivers do not feel comfortable allowing your child/children to wander by themselves in any play areas. It is not safe today and has never been safe. There is no security at these places, to stop the adult or bigger child/children from going in.
22 years ago I used to take my son to Discovery Zone. It was always crowded —Lots of children with their parents/caregivers. One day my sisters-in law and I took our children to DZ. My son was 2, (The year was 1992) one of his cousins, girl —3 and the other cousin, boy —4. The moment we arrived they wanted to play. We sent them and stood talking, but we made sure that we could see them. Our eyes were also on the entrance to see who was entering the tunnel. They were having fun and every time they exited the tunnel, they would go back so we kept vigilance. While they were in the tunnel a teenager about 17 entered the tunnel. We separated and started calling out to the children. My niece and nephew exited, but my son was still in there. One of my sisters-in-law said that she was going in and she ran to the entrance and entered. I saw him and shouted to her where he was. He was sitting in there playing with a car. The teenager was on the opposite side of him. My sister-in-law got to him and as innocent as he was, he smiled excitedly when he saw her, wanting her to stay and play. She told him they had to get out…


When my daughter was 4 (The year was 2001) We took her to ChuckE Cheese’s, Flatbush Avenue, Brooklyn NY. It was crowded… looked as though there were more than 100 children. I felt uncomfortable. My son was now 10. I told him to keep his eyes on his sister, but I had my eyes on them. It wasn’t 10 minutes into their play time when an adult male entered the tunnel. That was the end of the tunnel play time. Parent’s/Caregivers be vigilant with your children… 

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

“Be Careful”

Everywhere you go, someone tries to enlighten you about God. The way they speak to you, seems like they are on their way to heaven and you are going to hell. In order for you to get to heaven you must join them on their quest. If you don’t, the look on their face and the tone of their voice says that you are doomed. One thing I have to say is, “Be very careful who you ask to pray for you~ Not everyone who says, “God” is Christ-like —deeply devoted to God. Remember —Prayer without action is powerless.

A blessed safe day to you and yours.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

“Quotes To Think About”

We relish news of our heroes, forgetting that we are extraordinary to somebody too. —Helen Hayes (1900-1993)


We are weighed down, every moment, by the conception and the sensation of Time. And there are but two means of escaping and forgetting this nightmare: pleasure and work. Pleasure consumes us. Work strengthens us. Let us choose. —Charles Baudelaire (1821-1867)


I never heard of an old man forgetting where he had buried his money! Old people remember what interests them: the dates fixed for their lawsuits, and the names of their debtors and creditors. — Marcus Tullius Cicero (106 BC-43 BC)


Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is. —
Iris Murdoch (1919-1999)


Blessed are those who give without remembering. And blessed are those who take without forgetting. — Bernard Meltzer (1916-1998)



Because in the school of the Spirit man learns wisdom through humility, knowledge by forgetting, how to speak by silence, how to live by dying. — Johannes Tauler (1300-1361)

“I Wish For You”

Kindness, tenderness, intimacy~ I wish for you~ Love!
Good morning to you~ Be careful and have a wonderful  day…

Monday, August 5, 2013

Why do you feel you are not worthy to be introduced to the important people in his/her life? The moment you hear the warning bell do not ignore it~