A wonderful safe Sunday to you and your family. I do not understand men who were treated badly by their father treats their child, the same way. Are you a sadistic person? Did the hurt you felt resonated to you in a good way that you feel no qualms about transferring the hurt to your child? I don’t care if your life partner tells you to ignore the child, you can find a way to make good by that child. It is time to man up.