NO! The word that we are afraid to say when someone ask us to do something and our gut feeling tells us to say it. The person asking might be a relative or friend so we ignore gut and we say yes.

After the yes, you start screaming inside, ‘why the fuck did I say yes!’ The yes has been said, you do what they asked of you, and then you feel more fucked than before.

That happened to me on many occasions and I felt hurt yet I still say yes. I look at some of the people I said yes to and I am floored by their deceit. They talk about me in a bad way to friends and even to other family members. Deceived and lied to me yet come to me acting as though I am the best person in their life. I played along for 57 fucking years, treating them kindly and today I call it quits.

NO! IS GOING TO MEAN NO!